Many boys don’t know how to get closer to girls through chatting. In fact, it’s not that complicated. As long as you use the right method and talk about daily life, the relationship between the two parties can slowly get closer. What are the methods?
1. Make use of push-pull techniques
"Push-pull technique" is a surefire way to mobilize girls' emotions.
What is push-pull?
From the superficial meaning, it means pushing away first and then pulling back.
Pushing means pushing away distance, denying, rejecting, complaining, etc., which can have the effect of "making the other party feel that you are not interested in her".
Pulling refers to behaviors such as shortening the distance, affirming, praising, etc., which can have the effect of "making the other person feel that you like her".
Let her go through a roller coaster-like emotional experience from wanting to hit you with a pink fist, to shyness, and a little secret joy. Her emotions will continue to rise, and finally she will be happy with you. Never forget.
What needs to be noted is: whether it is pushing or pulling, you should not completely kill a road. Girls like to give men a little hope, and then take it back to make men more addicted. In fact, it is also a kind of push and pull.
You just need to learn their methods and then deal with them.
2. Use emoticons
A large part of our social behavior is based on observation Use the other person’s expression to determine the distance between you and the other person.
For example, if your voice is rough but your expression is extremely amiable, then the other person will not think you are cold and will feel close to you.
But if you have a condescending expression, the other person will keep their distance from you even if you speak in a baby voice.
When switching from real life to WeChat chat, we can’t see each other’s face through the screen, and cold words cannot fully convey the other party’s meaning.
So when we chat on WeChat, emoticons have become one of the most important factors for us to express our emotions.
Girls like to express their emotions with a variety of expressions, but we boys only reply with a few simple texts instead of expressions.
You think you have expressed your message clearly, but the girl has not received your emotions, but there is no warmth. The text itself.
Whether it is from a visual or reading perspective, expressions are more contagious and can arouse people's emotions.
In WeChat chat, we should make more use of emoticons and save more emoticons, funny andDynamic ones are needed.
In this way, when we chat with girls, we can use these expressions to arouse the other party's emotions, and the other party will be more willing to chat with you.
