No matter how much WeChat users use WeChat now, the best way to get closer to girls is to make phone calls. However, although many boys are very good at using the keyboard, they don’t know how to speak once they hear a real person’s voice. . So how do you chat with a girl on the phone?
1. Chat content should be concise
When chatting with girls on the phone, many people like to keep the details of the topic To explain something in a long way, but often you get bogged down in it because of too many details, or because you talk about too many things, you become incoherent.
The correct approach is to give a concise summary to let the girl understand what you mean. If the girl is in good condition, you can make a vague invitation to check the girl's attitude towards you.
2. Get to the point as quickly as possible
As we said before, you can’t get to the point directly when talking to a girl on the phone. Another thing to note is that you should not be inferior to the topic, but should get to the topic as soon as possible.
Therefore, during the phone call with a girl, after a simple greeting, if you want to ask a girl out, don’t make too much preparation, because that will make the girl think that you made a temporary decision and lack sincerity. . Of course, it is best not to invite a girl directly for the first time on the phone, as that will reveal your neediness and is a rude behavior.
If you want to attract girls, don’t keep asking questions. Don’t keep asking girls. Get to the point as soon as possible.
3. What should you say first when you call a girl?
Get straight to the point and take the initiative to expand the topic
“Where did you go during the holidays?”
“Have you seen the recently released movies?”
“The iPhone 11 is on the shelves, have you seen it? ?”
Calling a girl is actually a communication process, and you don’t need to go out of your way to find a topic. In particular, the opening words must not have an obvious purpose. Of course, if the girl is not very interested in your interests, then praise her first to arouse the girl's emotions. For example:
By the way, the clothes you wore yesterday, jeans and a sports jacket are so cool and look good
I wonder if you tied your hair up yesterday. I didn’t recognize you, but you still look the best like that
Add a friendly name and start with humor
When chatting with girls, a relaxed and happy atmosphere is very important. At this time When talking to a girl on the phone, you can start like this:
My eldest baby, do you miss me?
This lovely, beautiful, generous and kind-hearted young lady, here I come
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Opening in this way is easier for girls to accept, and if girls are willing to accept your affectionate address, it means that they also have a certain liking for you.
Asking under the guise of concern
Many boys just want to know what girls are doing, but if you ask them directly, girls are generally more disgusted. At this time, you can ask in a caring tone. , for example:
It’s so cold, you should wear more clothes. Are you outside? Do you want me to pick you up?
Did you have fun at the party at night?
I see that the weather outside is not very good today. Where are you? I will pick you up.
While showing yourself to be gentle and considerate, you still know the other person’s whereabouts, killing two birds with one stone.
