Strong inferiority complex and low sense of self-identity. A woman who is warmly welcomed by friends of the opposite sex, treated as a woman, and remains confident is not only a man she truly likes, but also a desire held by many men. However, no matter how many men they warmly welcome, they have no real self-confidence, so they often step into two boats every day.
If he has been acting abnormally in the relationship recently. Do you suspect she is being unfaithful to you? Their girlfriends are having two affairs, or they may be getting hung up on another man. What would you do in this situation? This article will explain how to recognize a woman who is cheating. Why do women have two legs? Let’s take a look at female psychology.
01Characteristics of women involved in two extramarital affairs.
No one likes to be in the same boat, and almost no one thinks that being in the same boat is a good thing. So, why does this kind of thing happen even though we know it is wrong, thus causing losses to both sides? Let’s first take a look at the characteristics of women who are very likely to be in two different situations.
Love the excitement of pursuing perfection.
Among female friends who obviously pursue perfection and are obsessed with the feeling of being in love and the speed of their heartbeats, they may feel bored after getting along stably and may fall in love with each other at the same time.
Want to be loved, want to be held in the hand
Among men, they are loved by everyone, and among girls, they are known as people who can feel their personal worth. In addition to the boys you really love, there are many other men who want to reflect their high added value.
People who are afraid of loneliness
Among the female friends who always hope that others will be around them, there are those who hope to use employment to make up for their loneliness, and there are also those who hope that all men can make up for the loneliness that real men cannot make up for.
Too gentle to the people around me
I may believe that when everyone mentions having two legs, their first impression is "making fun of each other". But if a woman who is friendly to everyone around her and treats people well, and can't turn down a person, then she probably has two legs.
Are you prone to trusting men?
Among female friends who have had painful love experiences such as being deceived or betrayed by a man in the past, some took two boats because they were afraid that they would only invest their real names.
02The psychology of a woman involved in two things.
From that perspective, explain the mentality of female friends involved in two relationships.
Having a strong inferiority complex and a low sense of self-identity.
A woman who is warmly welcomed by friends of the opposite sex, treated as a woman, and remains confident is not only the man she really likes, but also the desire of many men. However, no matter how many men warmly welcome them, they have no real self-confidence, so they often step on two boats every day.
There is a feeling of dissatisfaction.
If there is a hole in your heart that feels lonely and unsatisfied, do you start with aThere's never enough love from a man you really like, and sometimes you're in two different boats.
Worried about rejecting someone
The more confident a person is, the more afraid they are of being disliked by others, so they are easily snatched away. "Both are good, I can't make a choice." Such women may be afraid of being disliked because of their lack of confidence.
Fear of being abandoned
When the restlessness of being abandoned becomes more and more obvious, sometimes there is a kind of "two feet in a boat can have a candidate" mentality. This is a self-defensive mentality to lessen the impact of the boy you like. Conclusion This approach hurts boys’ hearts and leads to many breakups.
It was too much to endure around him.
Some gentle female friends will endure it alone even if they are dissatisfied with their marriage. Because I want to cherish my boyfriend, I choose to be patient, but the conclusion accumulated through loneliness and patience is that there are many phenomena of being deeply attracted by the tenderness given by other men.
Three ways to tell the difference between two boats
So, is there any way to tell whether your girlfriend is in two boats? To be honest, women are better at covering up evidence related to the two ships than men. Therefore, when it is necessary to distinguish whether she is on two ships, it may be more appropriate to take a closer look at her daily actions.
Slow response to WeChat, etc. The total is reduced.
So far, her reaction has suddenly slowed down. The total amount of communication on WeChat suddenly decreased, etc. In this case, there may be another man communicating with him.
I won't talk about myself anymore
A woman may feel relieved if she can share her feelings with a very important person. If she doesn't discuss her weaknesses and worries with you, or if you talk about these topics with her, she will often talk to you separately. Maybe someone besides herself was giving him advice and supporting her.
Have you not seen my good friends and relatives?
When a woman gradually associates with a loved one, she will think "how good my boyfriend is" and needs to be recommended to Trusted friends and relatives. Therefore, the phenomenon of being together for a long time but never letting your boyfriend see relatives and friends probably needs to be taken seriously.
So far, the method of dividing two boats has been explained. But due to my inner restlessness and excessive suspicion of her, many self-destructive phenomena occurred, so I have to pay attention to my words and actions. When you feel uncomfortable with her personal behavior, please fully consider the need to reconsider the other person and treat it with caution.
04 Her solution after embarking on two boats
When you are trampled by the girlfriend you like, your heart will be deeply hurt. The more you cherish her, the deeper your grief will be.
Even so, if you want to repair the relationship between him and the other party, how to solve the problem?
Let trust be goodFriends share their feelings.
Impulsive personal behavior is very easy to regret. It is important to show your feelings to your friends first so that they can accept and sort out your feelings. Choose someone you can trust to talk to your heart.
Listen carefully to her.
If you want to repair the relationship, it is important to listen and accept what she has to say at first. It's understandable to be sad, but there's nothing you can do about blaming him for having two affairs. Especially if one party who is caught in two boats feels guilty and is cornered, it is usually counterproductive.
Temporary decision to contact, distance.
It is also useful to keep a distance when the two ships are discovered and contact with her becomes awkward and there is no way to draw conclusions. Also give each other time to think.
