Many boys actually want to chat and laugh with girls, hoping to make girls happy through chatting, hoping to make girls happy to chat with them. But the reality is that when facing girls, they often have nothing to say, or they want to say something but are afraid that girls will not be interested in these topics, and the originally good opportunity to express themselves is ruined by themselves. Let me share with you what topics you can talk about with girls? You can’t go wrong with these topics.
1. Lifestyle topics
Many boys may be very good at topics such as technical theory, but girls will definitely not be interested in these topics (unless she is a related major). Generally speaking, girls are more interested in life-related topics, such as how to make the room look better, how to make the food more delicious, how to mop the floor cleaner, and how to use TB to save money. Such practical topics .
Therefore, you have to talk to girls about life. What is life? It is eating, drinking, and eating, and it is a small skill in life. Showing girls that you can change light bulbs is often more attractive than showing that you know the history of ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad; when you discuss with girls how to make pickled fish delicious, it will resonate more with girls than when you talk about the American political system; when you tell girls about philosophy, What are the three core issues? It is better to tell her which floor mop is better to use.
Many people will find out after seeing this that this is really the case. So you finally understand why you have nothing to talk about with girls.
2. Topics of visiting stores and checking in
Nowadays, there are videos about visiting stores and checking in on a certain video. Don't be too popular, and girls also like this kind of activities in their spare time. You will find that as long as she is not the kind of girl who is very homely, there will be a record of checking in to the store in her circle of friends. This is actually their hobby and a way to enrich their lives.
When girls see that you have check-in marks in your circle of friends, they will feel that they are the same type of person as you, and they will naturally be willing to open up a chat with you. And by the time you become a clock-in expert, you will definitely have mastered a craft, which is photography.
When you have photography skills, you have value. Because girls need to clock in, and clocking in requires taking photos, and a good photographer is the key. If you can take her photos beautifully, you will be the apple of her eye. She is the one who wants to pursue you, so hurry up and keep it. you.
3. Emotional topics
As long as a girl is a girl, she likes to talk about emotional topics, and she is their best friend. Besides planting grass for each other, sisters have another big topic. When you talk about emotions with girls, especially when you have unique insights into emotions, girls will think that you, a boy, are very special, and specialness means scarcity, and scarcity means valuable.
Just imagine how she and her best friendDon't we become best friends by sharing our emotional experiences with each other, scolding the scumbag, and complaining about the honest person? You can also upgrade your relationship through emotional topics. Even after you share your views on the same emotion, you feel that your three views are very suitable, and you can directly gain true knowledge through actual practice. No other topics can lead two people to talk about love, only emotional topics can.
And once you talk about the emotional field, you don’t have to worry about running out of topics. The topic of whether there is pure friendship between men and women can already be discussed until two or three o'clock in the middle of the night.
4. Self-construction topics
On the topic of self-construction, girls are really better than boys They are too ahead of their time. I once saw two girls sitting together for an entire afternoon and chatting about one topic: which skin care products are easy to use. Why girls like to buy, buy, buy, is because girls realize that only by loving themselves enough can they become more attractive. In turn, whoever has information that allows them to become better is valuable.
It’s actually not difficult to get chatting resources on this topic, just read what girls watch. For example, read more Xiaohongshu and watch more Li Jiaqi's live broadcasts. These behaviors can let you understand the world of girls and what girls are paying attention to. Of course, you don't just learn these contents just to find chatting materials, but you need to truly build yourself and improve yourself like a girl. From hairstyle to clothing, from body to wisdom
When you really do this, you and girls will not be short of topics. You only need to share what you are currently doing to build yourself. Good topic.
