When chatting with a girl, if the girl says she is bored, it is actually a good time to invite her. As long as you reply appropriately, you can successfully ask her out to meet. So how should a girl reply if she says she is bored?
First of all, you need to know that there are generally two situations when girls will say such things. One is that they find chatting with you boring. In this case, you need to reflect on yourself and improve your chat skills. The other is that Her life has been boring recently, this is your chance, and you need to pay attention to her reply.
For example:
When a girl says: Reading at home is so boring
Generally The boy replied: What book are you reading? (I asked the question immediately)
It is not a mistake to reply like this, but it is the boy who replied like this.
, generally have one thing in common: when chatting with girls, they always reply with habitual questions, and they are not aware of it yet. Looking back, they find that the girls have become more and more indifferent.
Others may reply: I’m bored too, but I rarely read. (Zero continuity, boring)
The disadvantage of this answer is that if the girl is not particularly interested in you, she may not pick up your words, making it difficult for each other to continue chatting. The second possibility , girls themselves are also introverted. Faced with such a reply, introverted girls may reply with the word "hmm", making it difficult for you to continue the conversation.
So, what is the best way to reply to such a simple sentence?
In fact, it is very simple
If you use the correct thinking in chatting, you should reply like this: There is a saying that a negative makes a positive. It happens that I am also bored. When two boring people are together, it is suitable to go to Starbucks for a cup of coffee. Relief and relief (coffee can also be replaced with milk tea or other things, according to the other party’s preference)
The advantage of replying like this: a girl may suddenly be interested in Starbucks coffee, and she happens to be bored. When she suddenly says this, she Might be interested.
Of course, some brothers have to say, what if she is not interested in going to Starbucks to drink coffee with me?
It doesn’t matter, because this reply has a second purpose. , let the topic continue well, and can be continued to a new topic, that is, the topic of where to go. Don’t stay in a boring atmosphere, because there is another core idea in chatting, which is to talk about emotions and atmosphere.
In short, you need to know that during the chat:
1. Don’t be like father and daughter. , preaching to girls
2. Don’t get stuck in a single topic, try toAsk less questions. Even if you want to ask a question, you might as well guess an answer. For example, if you want to ask a girl: How old are you? (Too violent and direct) you have to change it to: I feel like you should be 21 years old, as young as me~haha
3. Try to make the context of your chat as relaxed as possible. Appropriately use the above modal particles such as "haha" or expressions, but remember not to use too many, otherwise it will appear careless.
Finally, I remembered a very interesting conversation. This conversation was between Julie and Depp in a movie called "The Visitor" (if I remember correctly, you can watch it if you are interested). In the movie, a conversation between two people.
Probably something like this:
Julie said to Depp: "Please treat me to dinner."
Dai: "Can I treat you to dinner?"
She said: "Women don't like to be asked questions"
Dai: "Go to dinner with me"
She said: "Too reckless"
Dai: "Would you like to have dinner with me?"
She said: "You asked another question."< /p>
Depp: "I want to eat, but I can't eat without you"
Depp's last sentence included Julie's feelings and what women need, This is the perfect reply.