Many boys have no problem starting a chat with girls, but they are not good at exploring problems during the chat. They may run out of topics while chatting with girls, and you may feel embarrassed if the girl doesn’t say anything. Let me teach you how to find topics when chatting with girls? Explore topics.
1. Talk about topics that girls are interested in
In fact, what is the key topic for many boys to judge a girl’s breasts? To put it simply, if a girl has mentioned it to you more than once, the key Words, that might be a topic that interests her. For example:
Male: Is the weather good today?
Female: Yes, this time last year I almost died from the heat when I went to Hainan.
It’s a pity that the boy didn’t agree with her words, so after a while the boy said that this movie was quite good, and the girl said, yes, I went to see this movie with my friends in Hainan last time. Movie... So this girl subconsciously wants to find an opportunity to chat with others about Hainan. Maybe the trip to Hainan she experienced last year was an experience she urgently wanted to share. This is what girls want to talk about.
2. Talk about the advantages of girls
In fact, girls will spend time dressing up every time they go out, so chat Talking about a girl's advantages appropriately when you are in a relationship will make her happy. Even if you just chat with a girl on WeChat, talking about her advantages will make her happy. So how should we talk about the advantages of girls? For example:
"The lipstick you wore today is a good color, and it goes well with your skin tone."
"Why does your face look so good today? Tell me, did you buy something new? What kind of secret skin care products do you use to make your skin look so good?”
“Although your outfit looks very inconspicuous, it makes you look very cool when you wear it. It’s that low-key and elegant style. Feeling."
When chatting with a girl, talking about the girl's advantages can also shorten the distance between you and the other party, making the other party more willing to chat and interact with you in the future.
3. Talk about yourself
If you really don’t know how to find topics when chatting with girls, Then you might as well talk about yourself, because you are not familiar with girls, but you are very familiar with yourself. Of course you have to talk about your strengths. If you are knowledgeable and talented, then invite girls to the museum. From the oracle bone inscriptions of the Western Zhou Dynasty, to the three-color glazed pottery of the Tang Dynasty, to the blue and white flowers of the Yuan Dynasty, every time you go, introduce the history of the collection to the girl. (Of course, the premise is that girls are really interested in these, otherwise you are just playing tricks on others). If you sing well, then ask a girl to go to KTV and sing love songs to her throughout the whole show. If your love songs are really beautiful, girls may be moved by you... Girls all like strong men, they like that A strong man protectsProtected sense of security.
How to find topics when chatting with girls? To put it bluntly, you are good at observing when chatting with girls, observing what girls are interested in, and attracting girls.
