She is very perfunctory when chatting with girls. Usually it is because there is something wrong with your chatting method that makes girls uninterested in chatting with you. So how to deal with a girl's perfunctory chat to make her enthusiastic?
1. Change the way you chat
If your chat always ends with "Are you there?" "What are you doing?" "Are you busy?" and "Are you busy?" start the chat with a caring and questioning way. It is easy for girls to feel disgusted and start to deal with you.
After all, when you are not too familiar with each other, normal girls will not accept too much concern from you (except for green tea).
At this time, if you want her to regain the enthusiasm when you started chatting, you can change the way you chat appropriately, such as:
What are you doing?
< p> dedice? A lot of words were said, but I didn’t hear a word clearly. I’m not here to ask you today. (Showing interest in girls)A good opening statement can attract a girl's attention and make you different from other boys who are pursuing her. She will find you interesting and will be more willing to chat with you. , I will not reply to you perfunctorily.
With a good opening statement, you also need to show your value in subsequent chats to strengthen your attraction to girls. When your value meets a girl's requirements, she will like you.
So how do you show your value? Here you need to establish your chat framework. Many times, girls are perfunctory. You, it’s because you have fallen into the trap of girls, such as:
Girls: Why do you like me?
Boys: Because I think you are very interesting (I like you)< /p>
Or
Girls: Why are you looking for a chat?
Boys: It’s fun to chat with you
I believe many brothers are being asked When asking this question, you usually answer whatever the girl asks. The advantage of this is that you are an honest person, but this may be a test for you by the girl, testing your attitude towards her, and for a person who is looking for you. For a girl you are pursuing, such a direct reply can easily reveal your needs and put you in a passive state.
Many boys will think that there is something wrong with letting a girl know what they are thinking. I originally wanted to pursue her, but if this girl doesn’t like you, but the girl knows that you like her, it’s like playing cards with her opponent. Knowing everything about you, but you can't guess the other person, how can you win?
Therefore, when pursuing a girl, you must maintain a sense of mystery and let the other partyThe attraction will deepen only if you can't guess you, for example:
Girls: Why do you chat with me every day?
Boys: No, no one sends you messages except me?
Girls: No, but very few
Girls: Why do you like me?
Boys: Why do you think I like you?
When you encounter a girl’s inquiry, you can directly ask the girl back and constantly create curiosity for the girl. When a girl enters your chat frame, you can hide your needs and find out the girl’s attitude towards you.
2. Use push and pull techniques
When a girl has no feelings for you, no matter how you talk to her, she Your replies will be perfunctory, but when a girl has feelings for you, everything you talk about will be a topic.
Therefore, if you want to make her enthusiastic about this kind of girl who responds perfunctorily to you, you need to make her like you while chatting.
But many boys have many concerns when chatting with girls. They think that they are just friends and they dare not say something to make fun of a girl. Even if they say it accidentally, they are eager to apologize. Some boys always like to joke when chatting with girls, thinking that this can build a good rapport with girls, but they are disliked by girls and eventually make her reply perfunctory.
For example:
Boys: You look a little out of sorts today
Girls: Are you there?
Boys: From your circle of friends The photo is not as good-looking as you in person (pull)
Girls: Not very photogenic?
Boys: Although she looks silly (push), I still feel that she is a girl worthy of love (timely) Pull back)
The above is what I will give you today on how to deal with girls who respond to you. Have you all learned it?
