As a post-00s girl, I often hear my otaku friends complaining about not being able to find a girlfriend. Honestly, every time I hear this, I want to roll my eyes—how can you meet the girl of your dreams if you stay at home all day playing games and never go out? Today, I want to talk about what I, as a girl, think are the three most important things for otaku to do if they want to find a partner.
First, you need to step out of your house! I have a friend who constantly complains about being single, yet his weekends are spent either gaming or sleeping at home. I asked him, "How can you find a girlfriend if you don't even meet any girls?" Later, he took my advice and started attending various gatherings, like friends' birthday parties, company team-building events, and even signed up for some hobby classes. The result? He was no longer single within three months! So, expanding your social circle is really important. As one netizen commented, "The first step for an otaku to find a partner is to step out of their comfort zone."
Second, you need to have some ambition. Many guys think that girls only care about looks and money, but that's not true at all. What we girls value more is whether you have potential and if you're a reliable person. I know a guy who, although not earning much now, is constantly learning new skills and works very hard. Even if his current conditions are average, girls will see a promising future in him. As someone in the comments section said, "Girls don't dislike you for being poor; they dislike you for being poor and not ambitious."
Lastly, a sense of humor really adds points! There's a guy I know who isn't particularly handsome but is great at conversation and always makes everyone laugh at gatherings. The result? He has quite a few girls chasing him. So, instead of worrying about not being handsome enough, why not cultivate your sense of humor? As one netizen put it very well, "An interesting soul is more attractive than a good-looking exterior."
In summary, the key to finding a partner is to take action. Don't stay at home all day feeling sorry for yourself. Go out more, improve yourself, keep your sense of humor, and believe that you will soon find the right person. Remember, opportunities are for those who are prepared!