Recently, while chatting with friends, I noticed that my single friends are all worried about finding a partner, while those in relationships are troubled by how to maintain their love. As someone who has been through it, I'd like to share some practical love advice, hoping it can help you.
Let's start with single men. I've found that many guys rush to confess their feelings when pursuing a girl, which often backfires. In fact, confession should be a victory song, not a charge horn. Instead of rushing to confess, it's better to first enhance understanding through dates and interactions. Like my friend Xiao Li, he always keeps a certain distance when pursuing a girl, and only confesses when the relationship is stable, which actually increases his success rate.
Another point is to be cool in pursuit and warm in love. Many boys are too enthusiastic during the pursuit, checking in with good morning and good night messages every day, but then become indifferent after winning the girl over, which naturally makes the girl feel that you"ve changed. Being appropriately cool at the beginning, lowering expectations, and then being warm after winning her over, will make the girl's affection for you continue to warm up.
As for women in relationships, I think the most important thing is to maintain independence and confidence. Don"t give up your interests and dreams to please the other person. I have a close friend who always accommodated her boyfriend in the relationship, and as a result, she lost herself. Later, she learned to love herself and instead gained a healthier relationship.
Communication is also a very important part of a relationship. Learn to express your thoughts and feelings, and also listen to the other person"s opinions and needs. Good communication can build a more solid relationship. As netizen qshw76 said, being honest with each other is really important.
Finally, I want to say that whether you are single or in a relationship, you must learn to love yourself. Only by loving yourself can you truly love others. I hope these tips can help you, and I wish everyone can find their own happiness!
